Project You, TCMC
As I move through the Project You” program I’ve been focusing on recognizing if my intentions are rooted in love or fear. This is not a new concept but like anything it evolves at a deeper level when it is in my awareness. When situations get sticky I have a saying that helps me to focus… “Something needs to change here…and it is probably me.” It shifts my thinking and triggers me to take responsibility.

I don’t see myself as a particularly fearful women so acknowledging fear in my decision making is humbling. I had a particularly challenging interaction with someone over the weekend. So, of course my initial l reaction was that it was about her…I mean obviously she’s not evolved..right? :) Not really, it is about fear…my fear. What I know is that she is someone I need to distance myself from, but I don’t because of the other connections that I will lose if I do. So it is about my fear of losing something. That awareness is helping me to make decisions about how to move forward in the relationship. John talks about taking chances and making choices. Sometimes the choice is to let go of something…and allow something new to come forward!

What are your thoughts on TCMC?
Lindalee


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peachey114
peachey114

Definitely making me rethink some things........hum. I would say I fall into thinking I do not make choices out of fear when in fact that may be exactly what I have been doing. I can say I have never even considered that was a possibility. I have felt I have healthy boundaries ......not so sure now. I really need to wrap my head around this. I think keeping the TCMC in mind is going to challenge me in an entirely different way. I know when I have been in a couple of situations with someone.....I felt was less than Evolved I continue to try to figure out how to focus my thoughts to a positive direction . So do you let one person's nonsense change the dynamic's of life long friendships? I guess that will be the taking chances part.

I was listening to a Podcast this morning and the statement was made.....you should believe what you see the first time. That keeps running through my mind.

Definitely great food for thought Lindalee. Even though I listened to John discuss this........I don't think I really got it.

lindalee59
lindalee59

Yes, I think it was Maya Angelou who said, “When people show you who they are, believe them. I keep reminding myself that this is about developing me, not changing the people around me. What I see as another person’s negativity is rooted in something that they fear. Realizing that helps me to have empathy for them. BUT I don’t need to let them past the walls into my heart. Easier said than done, I am prone to energy vampire attacks. It comes back to setting boundaries, which is how I am seeing what John says about psychic self protection.

I was on a guided hike once and every so often some random cows would cross our path. The guide explained that they were free range cows able to go where they please. When I asked about them wandering onto other peoples property she said it was the property owner’s responsibility to put up the fence to keep the cow out not the cattle owners. I think that is how it work with negative energy. The energy is out there free ranging and it is up to me to put the fence up. Sometimes I hear certain people MOOING quite loudly at the gate…my job to not open it.

Happy Wednesday,
Lindalee

loxxy65
loxxy65

Your cow analogy is BRILLIANT!! So Profound and such a down to earth way of explaining it...

peachey114
peachey114

Developing me, not changing the people around me REALLY resonates with me.......I also got a chuckle out of certain people MOOING quite loudly. A lot of good things to think about today.
Lots to do this morning......so glad I have meditated and set my intention for the day! Have a fantastic Thanksgiving.

lindalee59
lindalee59

Have a beautiful day! Happy Thanksgiving!

lindalee59
lindalee59

Good Morning Ladies,
It sounds like your listening test was enlightening, Yea! I love that it made you aware of how funny your kids are. As a Nana I find that I don't want to miss a drop of them as little ones...it goes by in an instant. As far as gossip goes I find the best approach is to just not respond to it. And I mean say, NOTHING. I have a relative who likes to start down that path but if there is no response there is nowhere to go!

I have listened to all of Project You, but am starting to revisit sections in the morning and delve deeper. And also enjoying the recorded Q&A.
Okay, one Holiday down....onward to Christmas prep!
Enjoy the magic,
Lindalee

lindalee59
lindalee59

I connect through my journal. It has been a life long practice and for several years, a daily morning practice. It is sort of a wiser voice that comes through when I write. I also pay attention to my dreams. But even in dreams the strongest ones are usually narrowed down to a voice and one sentence.

When I was younger I did ask my guardian Angel what her name was and heard the name Spankie. I remember thinking it was a funny Angel name, but went with it. I also use to do one of John’s meditations many years ago that involved visiting a cabin and meeting your guides. I always just saw different shaped beams of light…one big and in overalls.

My main reason for taking this course is to stay more centered and focused on my goals…my reason for being here. I don’t know if I have actually connected to a team at this point. But I do trust my intuition and always feel guided. And Project You has given me some great insights and tool.
Have a great Saturday!
Lindalee

peachey114
peachey114

I make it a point to ask my guides to give me a sign and help me to recognize it is a sign. I have had some subtle signs and some not so subtle. I do feel my protector guide and also my healing guide around all the time. In the past 8 months another guide has made their presence known to me. I get a word or a few words that seem to be very plain that it is what I am to focus on......... Always a word or a few words.......no big conversation .....but I get it. Since starting Project You I now journal every time I get a message. I seem to wake up with the thought in mind or during a meditation. I am not a good sleeper so it seems to be a great time to meditate. That is my time to go to My Psychic Room......not much chance in getting interrupted.
I am away for a few days but like the suggestion to cleanse my house is noted. It is time and with all that is going on for the holidays......just not thought of it. Thanks KTMolloy!

lindalee59
lindalee59

Those are great strategies KT! I have been meaning to mention how much I love the morning affirmation. I set an intention for my day during my yoga practice and I've been using the affirmation to narrow it down to a word. LOVE that!!! I also try to keep track of things on the note pad in my phone.

sallypozar
sallypozar

I don't think I'm that evolved nor do I know if this relates well, so feel free to dismiss this lol. I'm currently in a similar situation. I'm surrounded by toxic people. I have a couple of alcoholic friends that ive know for 4 or 5 years, they have no direction and take advantage of generosity to the point it's expected a bit, but they're happy to tear others down. My philosophy is get rid of the toxic people in your life, If you lose others in the process and they don't see where you are coming from or don't respect your decision, then why are they friends? Granted it's not easy, I'm struggling letting go myself, but small steps. Sounds cold, but life goes on and you will meet other people in your life for new lessons etc. You have to do what's right for you, you don't have to be nasty about it. It all about the energy you put out, and I think if you surround yourself with negative or toxic people then inevitably you end up projecting that to some degree. Why you gravitate to these kinds of people is something else. I'm stronger than I give myself credit for, so I'm not scared of letting go. I'd rather be alone than around people who are not good for me or support me. Granted it's not easy but I have never regretted letting go. Its all about personal growth.

lindalee59
lindalee59

Thanks for your thoughts Sally. I think you would like Project You, if you decide to take it please join in the conversation!

peachey114
peachey114

You can find Project You on the Hayhouse website. You may find it enlightening. I love the fact that we are reviewing it. I have gone back to listening to it from time to time. I like the fact that we can talk to one another and share what we are getting from the course. In the short time we have been interacting with each other I have been challenged to think a little deeper......I love it. That is why I took the course to begin with.....
Enjoy your day Sallypozar!

sallypozar
sallypozar

No, I haven't heard of project you.

lindalee59
lindalee59

I’ve been thinking about a better way for our Project You discussions to continue on this site. Rather than having one thread that we have to scroll to the bottom of each time I have decided to add a new topic once a week. I hope everyone is okay with that idea, it just feels like a better way to keep the conversation focused. I started a new thread for this week...see you there!
Lindalee

lindalee59
lindalee59

LOL, KTmolly....Just part of the team, the one on this side!